Hey you, do you know that you make me smile?
Hey you, do you know that you make this day worth while?

I know I’m not the girl you wanna see,
but can I just tell you what’s deep inside of me?

You, you make my heart jump up and down
You, you make my world go round and round and round and round
Oh, If you only knew how much I’m so in love with you
Maybe you can make my dreams come true, with you.

Hey you, you put the rainbow in my sky
Hey you, you put the sparkle in my eyes

And I know I’m not princess in your world,
but can I just tell you I wanna be your girl.

You, you make my heart jump up and down
You, you make my world go round and round and round and round
Oh, If you only knew how much I’m so in love with you
Maybe you can make my dreams come true, with you.

Maybe we could give it a try.
I promise you won’t ever see me cry
Just please stop being so blinded
Cause’ maybe I’m the one you needed.

You, you make my heart jump up and down
You, you make my world go round and round and round and round
Oh, If you only knew how much I’m so in love with you
Maybe you can make my dreams come true
Baby can it be me and you…

For ALL Girlfriends..

You won’t be his first, his last, or his only. He loved before, he will love again but if he loves you now…WHAT ELSE MATTERS?

He’s not perfect, and neither are you and the two of you will never be perfect but if he makes you laugh, at least once causes you to think twice, and admits to being human, and making mistakes…HOLD ON TO HIM and give him all you’ve got.

He is not going to quote poetry.

He is not going to be thinking about you every moment,but he will give you a part of him, that he knows you can break.

DON’T hurt him.

DON’T change him.

DON’T expect too much from him.

SMILE when he makes you happy, CRY when he makes you sad and MISS him when he’s not there…

 

PS: This post is NOT mine. I just saw this wonderful love quote (and fell in love with it)  in http://www.wittyprofiles.com/q/2273105

Tug of War

“Do not ever talk to me, call me or even text me anymore!”, Mark said to me with raging eyes as he points his finger at me then walked out the door. At that very moment I knew, our 6 years relationship is over.

The one who guards his mouth preserves his life; The one who opens wide his lips comes to ruin. –Proverbs 13:3

This has been one of the verses I try to apply in my life. I try to keep quiet or keep everything to myself than say something that can destroy or hurt somebody else. Martyrdom? Not so much. It’s really hard to keep everything only to yourself. People get heart attacks just by doing that. Well for me, all the hurt, the pain, the sorrow, it’s all inside of me. I keep everything to myself just so he can have his happiness. Well, Love means sacrifice. And not only to him, but to all people I know. I’m not such an open type of person when it comes to negative things. I’m an optimistic kind of person so I concentrate more on the positive side of things. I compliment people and do all ways to make them happy. I was once told by my Chinese professor as he looked into my palm, that I’ll sacrifice my own happiness for the sake of others.
I thought I could hide all my feelings of pain from him so we can have this beautiful relationship without fighting over something, but he suddenly said that he couldn’t feel my care for him, how could he marry someone who doesn’t really care about him. Ouch. He just busted the bubble. You know the feeling when you’re like pouring water into a glass, then slowly it’s getting full. If the water keeps on pouring and no one’s drinking it, it’ll overflow to the ground. My feelings overflowed like those water and I couldn’t stop it anymore. I said things which weren’t meant to be said out loud. Being the defensive type of person that he is, he said stuffs that just pierced though my heart.
We’re like players of a game called “tug of war”. I push, he withdraws and vice versa. Our relationship represents the rope. I pulled a bit too hard and he’s slowly letting go of the rope. This was the worst fight we ever had because this time, he’s the one breaking up with me.
I was in shock and I couldn’t move. All I could think of was…it’s over. Done. End. I heard him start his car and went out our gate. I felt my body heating up and I suddenly had this urge to get out of the house, not to go after him but to get something cold, something that can ease the burning pain I feel inside. I started my car and went out. I was surprised to see his car still parked outside our street. Since my maid’s already asleep, I had to close the gate. So I went out of my car, closed the gate and when I got back…He was there at my door.
Just to make the story short, we talked inside my car. Tugging our own side of the rope, again. Now, He’s trying to pull the rope and I’m the one ready to let go.
Compromise. That’s what we need. We eventually got tired of hearing each other’s reason so we just agreed upon some things. I have to be more open about my feelings whether it’s positive or negative. He, on the other hand, has to recognize and appreciate me more.
I once heard that out of every bad situation, good happens. Before ending this day, Mark told me that he’s proving his love for me by holding the rope so tight and he wouldn’t let go no matter how hard I push or pull. I told him that I would also hold the rope so tight no matter how rough it is. And maybe after years of holding our rope, we can tie the knot someday.

The Perfect Girl/Girlfriend

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Yes, she exists. And NO, she’s not the supermodel type with the long legs and perfect skin. She’s even better. She’s the type of girl you’d overlook–she’d be your last choice. At worst she’s insecure, clingy, shallow, jealous, nagging, sensitive, emotional, dramatic, and annoying. But if you can’t handle her at her worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve her at her best.

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What is a perfect girlfriend? They say there’s no such thing as perfection, and that she doesn’t exist.

Oh trust me, SHE DOES.

She dresses up all cute and pretty every time you take her out on a date. This is her way of keeping you interested as your eyes are locked solely on her. You stare at other girls instead, and she gets hurt and upset that all her time and effort were put to waste.

You call her insecure.

She holds on to you like she’s never letting you go. This is her way of telling other girls that she’s lucky that she has you, and no, you’re not available.

You call her clingy.

She calls you the sweetest nicknames, or ones that only you two will understand. This is her way of saying how special you are, and that there’s nobody else in this world like you. You call other girls “babe” just as how you would call her, and she gets disappointed.

You call her shallow and jealous.

She checks up on you, making sure you made it home safely or that you’re not out getting yourself into any kind of trouble. This is her way of showing how often she thinks about you and that she worries constantly because that’s how much she cares.

You say she’s nagging.

She cries when you do or say something wrong. This is her way of saying “That hurts only because YOU said it and I love YOU.”

You call her overly sensitive and emotional.

She loves you more than you love her. This is her way of dealing with the fact that your relationship wasn’t like how it used to be, but she is willing to make room for more love and some changes. You push her away.

You call her dramatic and annoying.

So go ahead. Leave the insecure, clingy, jealous, nagging, overly sensitive, annoying girl. She will soon be much happier in the arms of someone who actually deserves her: the perfect boyfriend.

 

PS: This post is NOT mine. Saw this while tumblr-ing 🙂 http://www.tumblr.com/tagged/perfectgirlfriend